5 Things People With Anxiety Secretly Do Alone
– Hey Psych2Goers, welcome back. Think you’ve never
experienced anxiety before? Well, you might not have realized it because people experience
anxiety in different ways. Your idea of anxiety might not align with
how you experience it. And you may not notice anxiety in someone who grapples with it privately. So, it’s important to
remember to always be kind because you can never know
what others are struggling with when they’re alone. If you’re dealing with anxiety, know that you’re not alone
in facing these challenges. Anxiety is a normal part of life. It alerts us to dangers
and helps us prepare for a wide variety of situations. However according to the Diagnostic and Statistical
Manual of Mental Disorders, DSM, anxiety becomes a disorder
when it starts to impact daily functioning and
different aspects of life. With that said, here are five things people with anxiety secretly do alone. Number one, overthink,
overthink, and overthink. Anxiety disorders are
characterized by excessive or disproportionate worry and fear that gets in the way of daily activities.
It may not be as obvious to other people, but those who struggle with
anxiety tend to overthink while in the presence of
others and when alone. Many people who struggle with anxiety tend to dwell on negative thoughts about themselves and their past. They may replay these
past events in their head over and over, trying to think of what they
could have done differently. And may also imagine
possible future events to try and anticipate
things that might go wrong. Two, confine themselves
to their comfort zone. Everyone feels anxious now and then, but those struggling
with an anxiety disorder constantly adjust their
lives to cater to it. They may stick to activities that calm their racing thoughts, or engage in pursuits that
allow them to avoid the things that make them feel anxious instead of choosing activities
purely for fun or interest.
Like re-watching the
same shows over and over because they don’t have to
feel anxious anticipating what might happen next. Some people may not even
be able to leave the house out of fear of being in
places and situations where escape may be difficult. Or they may struggle to leave the house without a certain person
they’re scared to lose. Three, withdraw from social interaction. Some people with anxiety may
have a limited social life and turn down invites, not
out of a lack of interest, but to stay home to calm
certain worries and fears. In some cases, the person
may seem uninterested in spending time with others due to a crippling fear of
feeling humiliated, rejected, or looked down on in social interactions. People with anxiety may withdraw socially to cope with their fears
and might avoid their phones or ignore or turn off their notifications to manage their feelings of anxiety, and then feel overwhelmed
and anxious later when they see the backlog of messages.
Number four, procrastinate
or struggle to finish tasks. People with anxiety, especially
high-functioning anxiety, may seem like completely
put-together achievers, but they may also grapple
with getting their work done when they’re alone, because anxious thoughts may
force them to procrastinate. Anxiety also affects working memory, which makes it difficult
to focus long enough to complete tasks. And so, they may then have to rush to get things done on
time, adding extra stress. Then number five, tossing
and turning in bed. Having anxiety doesn’t
immediately translate to nervous, jittery energy that
others can easily detect. Someone with anxiety can
seem calm and rested, when in reality, they might be
tossing and turning at night, unable to fall asleep because
of their anxious thoughts.
If they do manage to get some sleep, they might be restless or
riddled with nightmares about their anxieties. For example, those with
separation anxiety disorder may have nightmares about being separated from their loved ones. Anxiety disorders are complex and varied, but remember that a certain
level of anxiety is normal and anxiety disorders are those that cause significant distress or impairment in different areas of life. If you or anyone you know, are struggling with an anxiety disorder, please don’t hesitate to
reach out to a qualified mental health care provider.
Can you relate to any of these signs? Share with us in the comments and remember to like and share this video with someone who might benefit too. As always the references and studies used are listed in the description below. Until next time, take care friends.
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